The Loving Children of an Ungodly Father: Bait in Training
In some ways, David Berg’s grooming of women for the task of literally giving their all for the cause reminds me of rumored Soviet-era KGB training of swallows (female sex spies). An early exercise would consist of forcing the novice spy to engage in public nudity. The purpose of this was to habituate her to humiliation, chipping away at her ego and self-esteem until there was nothing left of either.
Although he instituted the policy after the advent of FF-ing, Berg strongly encouraged female members to perform videotaped or filmed stripteases for him (NSFW link). At the time (early-1980s), he would often lay low in undisclosed locations while various law enforcement agencies hunted for him. Thus members all over the world would communicate with him by videotaping or filming messages to send him. In such Mo Letters as “Glorify God in the Dance” (DO, dated 24 July 1981) he praised the women who submitted to this call:
In 1982, the cult published a DO-rated True Komix issue based on a January 1974 Mo Letter titled “The Little Flirty Fish” (NSFW link). By editing and reissuing this ML as a comic strip, the cult hoped to explain the practice of FF-ing to their children, especially the girls. In such DO-rated publications as “My Little Fish” (NSFW: read warning below), the cult gave instructions, both to kids and adults, for how to sexually relate to each other.
Simply put, leadership intended these publication for children, and children certainly read them. As ABC News producers found out:
Figure 1. 20/20 interview with Children of God/Family of Love children
As much as the CoG were known for free sex and religious prostitution, sexual activity among its children would become its biggest source of notoriety, corroborated by many second generation members, among them River Phoenix. While one might think that a sex cult wouldn’t necessarily coerce children into sexual activity, this one did. While the cult justified this (and many other things) by the twisted interpretation of scripture, the preoccupation with pedophilia actually came from the darkest part of Berg’s psyche.
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*This link will take you to the opening frames of Children of God: Lost & Found, a 2007 documentary produced by former second-generation CoG member Noah H. Thompson for Home Box Office (HBO). Because this has been carefully edited, and aired multiple times on national television, it’s safe to say that this clip depicting the stripteases of young girls (one of them Berg’s biological granddaughter), is legal to watch in the US. This might not be the case in all countries. To be safe, I suggest you check the child pornography laws of your country before clicking that link.
I highly recommend Thompson’s film, because it’s made from the point of view of a thoughtful insider. If you watch it from beginning to end, you will find later footage of two adult women reviewing the striptease videos they made as children. Their commentary is quite enlightening.
To read later posts in this series, click here.
Although he instituted the policy after the advent of FF-ing, Berg strongly encouraged female members to perform videotaped or filmed stripteases for him (NSFW link). At the time (early-1980s), he would often lay low in undisclosed locations while various law enforcement agencies hunted for him. Thus members all over the world would communicate with him by videotaping or filming messages to send him. In such Mo Letters as “Glorify God in the Dance” (DO, dated 24 July 1981) he praised the women who submitted to this call:
IN FACT, WE HAVE BEEN AMAZED AT THE TALENT ALONG THIS LINE that we have discovered amongst you girls in the Family, & it has been quite an attractive addition to our repertoire of thrilling Family tapes, we have personally enjoyed them immensely, most of them, that is.As mentioned earlier, children born into the cult were essentially parentless, because of the group’s disdain for the “selfishness” of biological families, and because they often separated families. It should therefore come as no surprise that many of the sexual aspects of cult life filtered down to the kids as well. The stripteases asked of adult women were also encouraged among young girls as well (NSFW: strong warning*). In this sense, we see leadership of the CoG/FoL indoctrinating these girls into the roles the cult wanted them to play, specifically as future (or perhaps not-so-future) sex sirens.
EVEN SOME OF THE LITTLE INDIVIDUAL ONES which you included with the video of your own personal family in which some of you dear brave girls volunteered courageously to go all the way for us & the Lord & to give your all & your best to Jesus & his ever-loving Family, & we really love them & love you for making them & thank you with all our hearts…. [emphasis original]
In 1982, the cult published a DO-rated True Komix issue based on a January 1974 Mo Letter titled “The Little Flirty Fish” (NSFW link). By editing and reissuing this ML as a comic strip, the cult hoped to explain the practice of FF-ing to their children, especially the girls. In such DO-rated publications as “My Little Fish” (NSFW: read warning below), the cult gave instructions, both to kids and adults, for how to sexually relate to each other.
Simply put, leadership intended these publication for children, and children certainly read them. As ABC News producers found out:
Figure 1. 20/20 interview with Children of God/Family of Love children
As much as the CoG were known for free sex and religious prostitution, sexual activity among its children would become its biggest source of notoriety, corroborated by many second generation members, among them River Phoenix. While one might think that a sex cult wouldn’t necessarily coerce children into sexual activity, this one did. While the cult justified this (and many other things) by the twisted interpretation of scripture, the preoccupation with pedophilia actually came from the darkest part of Berg’s psyche.
_____________
*This link will take you to the opening frames of Children of God: Lost & Found, a 2007 documentary produced by former second-generation CoG member Noah H. Thompson for Home Box Office (HBO). Because this has been carefully edited, and aired multiple times on national television, it’s safe to say that this clip depicting the stripteases of young girls (one of them Berg’s biological granddaughter), is legal to watch in the US. This might not be the case in all countries. To be safe, I suggest you check the child pornography laws of your country before clicking that link.
I highly recommend Thompson’s film, because it’s made from the point of view of a thoughtful insider. If you watch it from beginning to end, you will find later footage of two adult women reviewing the striptease videos they made as children. Their commentary is quite enlightening.
To read later posts in this series, click here.
Labels: CoG2, cults, innocence, mind control, political theory



21 Comments:
At 11:54 AM,
Susan said…
I have to puke. When I feel better, I will write a better comment.
What a sick f(*&k!
At 12:26 PM,
X. Dell said…
I'm hip, Susan. Early on, I posted:
"A word of warning: this next series of posts will actually exist as a series of series, each exploring a very dark, and very ugly matter. It will certainly inflame your emotions. For many of you, it will be a major turnoff, especially since I will probably spend a good deal of time talking about it. Nevertheless, I welcome your insights, for I know that some of you have explored some facets of this topic on your own and thus have probably developed some rather firm opinions about it. As always, my first goal will be to clarify the conspiracy issues. If things get cloudy, I have every faith that you’ll let me know.
It's very difficult for me to write about this because of the emotions these stories bring up in me. I have to address this subject (although I've avoided it for years, now) because it is something that conspiracy researchers actively discuss. My feelings about it probably won't change. The best I can do is muddle through and alert the reader of (a most likely shared) bias.
At 1:20 AM,
Ray said…
I wonder if some sort of balance sheet could me made to see if more good than harm has been done in the name of God/Jesus.
Also, how much of this stuff is "charisma" on the part of the leader and weak wills on the part of the followers?
Another great -- but this time very disturbing -- series.
At 5:38 AM,
Susan said…
Okay, I think I'm getting over my intestinal disturbance.
I want to give an objective response, and it is hard when you read such things, even though I can't say I am surprised. Right now in Philadelphia, the archdiosese is under fire for continuing to move buggering priests with knowledge of their crimes, yet at the same time, they dismissed a priest who was openly gay in a stable relationship. What's wrong with this picture?
It makes sense that Berg would brainwash the children into sexual abuse. Once license has been given to all forms of sexual exploration, deviation is bound to occur. My guess is that this goes on in all sorts of religious settings from wacked out cult to established religion. I find myself thinking of power/authority relationships in a world without boundaries except the need for acquisition.
At 8:13 AM,
X. Dell said…
I hate it when Blogger eats up my comments.
Ray, it's a very interesting question. After all, most of the members of CoG never met Berg. In fact, many of them didn't even know what he looked like (he travelled incognito to avoid authorities, and didn't allow many photos of himself). So the charisma he imparted would have been second (or third) hand.
One of the myths about cults is that they target weak-willed people. In fact, the opposite is true. They discourage "believers" from joining. After all, if someone can be easily brainwashed into the cult, then they can be just as easily brainwashed out of the cult.
Things started out more or less legitimately for the CoG, with the craziness ratcheted up slowly, one notch at a time. Perhaps it would be easier to think of this in terms of the old cliche where you put a frog in a pot of water, and raise the temperature of the water one degree at a time. By the time the water is boiling, the frog might not be aware he's being cooked.
Susan, in the next post I'm going to cite a sociological study of the CoG that affirms your observation: because of a number of factors, when license for hedonism became dogma, the policy on sexual activity would extend to children as well.
The author of this study would probably make a distinction between the type of pedophilia practiced by priests within the Catholic Church and the kind practiced by the CoG. Although the Catholic church has tolerated pedophiles, it has never sanctioned or condoned the practice, whereas the CoG did. Moreover, the abuse by various clergy did not permeate the church as it did in the CoG. And the CoG's pedophilia--its view of sexuality in general--stemmed from the need of its founder to overcome sexual dysfunction by acting out, and his desire to justify that through the Bible and by pressuring his subordinates to mimic his actions.
At 10:19 AM,
Charles Gramlich said…
My heart breaks. I hope this SOB is being pissed on in hell right now.
At 3:43 PM,
X. Dell said…
Charles, unfortunately Berg might get his jollies out of getting pissed on--in hell or anywhere else.
At 4:04 PM,
Candy Minx said…
The slow "boiling frog" effect of this cult and it's decadence and shifts into sexism... I'm strangely reminded of the general patriarchal power in our culture still. Images and attitudes to females covers a range of subtle subluxations. You know there is a novel that depicts the patriarchal forces of sexuality very well... Disturbing but brilliant "the story of o".
I did not know River Pheonix and his family were in CofG. Sheesh.
At 6:58 PM,
foam said…
i don't think i could watch the movie, no matter how thoughtful and that it was made by a victim. i'd had to do a lot of overcoming ..
i'm going to hang in here .. but when it involves children i get queasy ..
At 9:20 PM,
X. Dell said…
Candy, that's a good point. Taken into context with contemporary mainstream culture, the cult's initial stance on patriarchy and gender roles wasn't that much out of line with everyone else. But then, it kept heading, ever so slowly, in a direction mainstream culture wasn't going (at least as fast).
BTW, I read Histoire d'O, about ten years after seeing the movie starring Corrine Clery. There's the degree-by-degree degredation suffered by the title character on the one hand. But the quasi-Masonic themes piqued my curiousity. Comparing that to the CoG seems appropriate. While some might protest that O went in willingly--unlike women of the CoG--commonsense would suggest that similar pressure from her boyfriend and who knows where else, was in itself coercive.
Foam, believe me: I understand. As I said, I resisted this topic for literally years. I don't particularly care for it, myself. It's just that there is something of importance in the topic (after everything is said and done).
I also realize that I might lose people in a subject matter that's this dark. If you're suddenly scarce for the remainder of the series, no one here will think ill of you.
At 6:36 AM,
dr.alistair said…
i have been scarce myself for precisely the reason that i was raised in a jesuit home.
the catholic church is no more or less vile than the CoG in it`s indoctrination methods.
At 8:12 AM,
X. Dell said…
Alistair, I appreciate that. You've experienced and witnessed what you did. Who am I to say otherwise?
At 12:19 PM,
Shrinky said…
Thank God I'm an aethiest. I am very familiar with "The Children Of God", I personally know someone raised in the cult. Damaged, fragile adults (whom shoud NEVER have had children) are always easy prey to charasmatic predators - unfortunately there seems to always ber plenty of both around to feed off each other (sigh)..
BTW, thanbks for the visit - I am delighted to make your acquaintance (grin)!
At 2:26 PM,
benjibopper said…
As usual I can only shake my head at the depths to which people can sink. I often write fiction that seems so dark and I wonder, 'where did this come from?' And then I look around and say, 'oh yes. reality.'
At 6:31 PM,
X. Dell said…
Shrinky, glad to see you over here on the X-Spot.
I'm afraid there are more than enough predatory gurus to go around. One thing I've learned about cults though is that just about all of us have periods in our lives where we're more or less "fragile": away from home for the first time; death of a loved one; rejection and separation from a spouse or lover; loss of a job or income, and so on.
Well put, Benji. I don't really know if I could ever make something like this were I to write it as fiction.
A couple of select friends in my old academic circle, who know about this site and my involvement in it, giggle and ask me if I really believe in any of this stuff (e.g., "conspiracy theory"). I tell them that what's stipulated in the public record (Congressional proceedings, court transcripts, etc.) is often far weirder than any fiction that you have read, or could imagine.
The CoG are but one case and point.
At 10:55 AM,
Susan said…
I'm with Dr. Alistair on his take on the Catholic Church. I agree with you, X, that the church never officially sanctioned pedophillia, but in my mind that is what makes it so damning--the hypocrisy, the lies, the sheer pretense at holiness.
That doesn't make Berg any better. He's a sick F*&k, enabled by his charisma and his willing followers. The lie comes in when he claims to represent God. I've seen the Bible twisted in all sorts of contortions, but it takes a really sick mind to discover justification for sex with children.
Maybe I should start my own religion in which jerks like these go straight to hell while they are still in body. In the 9th circle of Dante's inferno, there was one friar who was so disgusting that Dante sent his soul to hell while he was still alive. The metaphor is obvious: sin of a certain nature will take your soul and all that remains are the demands of the flesh. Now that could be feasible for those who still perpetuate these teachings.
I am sure there are other cults out there that are doing the same thing or possibly even worse things. As our planet continues to implode, people will flock to seemingly secure figures. In my state, they are called Republicans.
At 1:59 PM,
X. Dell said…
Susan, I would defer to what you say and Dr. Alistair say for a couple of reasons: (1) you're both former Catholics who have seen the church up close; and (2) when I think of everything from the crusades to the Inquisition to the Ratlines, I can see you both have a point.
While all sorts of devils have used the Bible for their own ends, what I find interesting in Berg's case is that his usage of them is unusually transparant, and to a large his extent, his intentions are (forgive me) rather naked.
Something scary: you could start your own religion. If you think in terms of your own id, you could perhaps think about how you would structure it to accomodate your desire for power and other things.
At 5:06 PM,
Susan said…
I was speaking tongue in cheek about the religion. Actually, my brother in law started his own religion. I forget what he called it, but it involved the worshipping of Keannu Reeves as the divine in flesh. He designed the web page from DOS. I'll have to ask him if he is still practicing.
At 7:15 AM,
X. Dell said…
Susan, I know you were joking. But I'm not. You have actually some of the characteristics of the typical cult founder. As evidenced by the success of Cruel Virgin as a blog (I don't know if you knew this, but it was ranked very highly on the now-defunct blogshares game, with a popularity score of almost three times that of the X-Spot at its height), I know that you can draw followers--some of them you might not want because they're too, um, mushy. You have some strong convictions about social issues, that would resonate with people looking to "make a difference" in their lives. Also, most successful cult founders are physically attractive. People don't like to admit a sexual connection to clergy, but as I've seen--particularly in studies on black churches, but also in studies I've seen on televangelists--that's reality.
At 8:24 PM,
Devin said…
Thanks so much for yet another extremely thought-provoking and in many cases heart-breaking series Xdell!!
fantastic comments also-I tend to wonder along the lines of Ray many times wrt the balance sheet!!
all the best to you my friend!!
ps -the poor young girl in the 20/20 video clip seems to be under extreme psychic stress to me-so very sad!!
At 10:06 PM,
X. Dell said…
Devin, the little girl starkly shows her indoctrination. If she's under stress, my first guess is that it's coming from the interview itself, which is challenging everything this kid believes.
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